4 Surprising Signs Of A Cheating Wife

Hey there, Steve here and welcome to this week’s private eye post where we’ll take a look at four surprising signs of a cheating wife.

No-one wants to believe their partner is cheating on them. And the truth is there may be other reasons for these signs — but if you continue to wonder why she’s acting in certain ways, she could be up to no good.

Disclaimer: This information is for general educational purposes only and may not apply to all situations — everyone is unique after all. For help with an individual situation, please contact us —the first call is free, and we may just be able to put your mind at rest!

#1 Running Late Again?

Look, I get that some people are terrible at time-keeping. They can’t help but be late for everyone and everything. But if your partner is usually fairly punctual and all of a sudden is forgetful, inattentive, and seems to be constantly running late, this can be a huge sign they’re being unfaithful

There are two possible infidelity reasons for your partner’s poor time management. One, their mind is elsewhere. Or two, they’re busy doing other things with their new-found fling.

#2 Friends With Cheaters

Just like you are what you eat, people are generally the sum of the friends they keep. If your wife has a friend who cheats, they’re much more likely to pick up the same behaviour. The main reason is your wife will become desensitised to her friend’s actions because of her regular exposure to it. In a sense, she will justify it as something that’s pretty harmless. Also, your wife’s friend can show your wife how to hide her cheating ways.

#3 They Tell White Lies

Everyone lies to some degree. And usually white lies are insignificant and harmless. But being untruthful about seemingly small things can mean a cheating partner. Let’s imagine your wife lies about her whereabouts. She says she’s been at work, but you later discover that she was with a friend. You probably don’t have an issue with her seeing her friends, so why would she lie? It’s because she’s hiding something from you, that’s why!

#4 She’s Overly Critical Of You

Cheaters often feel an incredible amount of guilt and shame for their actions — “cheater’s guilt”. One of the main ways a wife will justify her cheating is by making out her marriage is so bad that she had no choice. This typically happens when a wife has truly fallen in love with their side affair, as she feels happier in her new relationship. So, if she’s acting cold and mean toward you and you feel like it’s an over-the-top reaction, you should delve deeper into the possible reasons she’s being like this.


The smallest things can hide much bigger meanings. Look for changes to her usual routines and behaviours, and ask yourself what the possible reasons are for those changes. If you can’t put your finger on what the reasons are, she could be having an affair.

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Until next week,