Steve here and welcome to this week’s private eye post where we’ll take a look over some of the more stupid things men say when they’re cheating.
Let’s take a look…
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#1 – You look great honey
Most cheaters feel guilty about cheating. To try and offload some of his guilt, a man will try and flatter you in an effort to make you feel good. Making you feel good somehow makes him feel better about himself. Typically, men will do this in front of other people so as to lessen the suspicion of him cheating.
#2 – No way can you meet my “friend”
A surprising number of men who cheat will talk about the other woman. Of course, he won’t be telling the gory details of their two-hour sex session, he’ll be talking about her in an innocent manner. But when you ask who “she” is, the reply is “just a friend.”
If you ask to meet her, or at least mention it, walls will come up in the form of reasons you can’t, or a brush-off, such as “I don’t really spend time with her.”
#3 – The role reversal
By accusing you of cheating he hopes to twist your thinking in that he somehow isn’t. If he has no reason to be accusing you of having an affair, then it’s probably a good time to investigate the reason why.
#4 – Wrong name
Something that’s very hard to fix. He calls you by another woman’s name. It means he was thinking of her when he was doing whatever he was doing. This one doesn’t have a happy ending.
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Until next week,