Is My Husband Cheating With Someone At Work?

Hey there, Steve here and welcome to this week’s private eye post where I’ll go through the four most common signs that will answer the question, “Is my husband cheating with someone at work?”

The truth is many affairs start at the office. Some estimates have the percentage of “flings” which start this way, at a staggering 80% of all affairs.

While this number might initially seem astronomically high, it really makes a lot of sense. People who work together often develop deep friendships, and as a result of highly personal conversations become much closer over time. Before long, the deep friendship blossoms into a full-blown intimate relationship. This happens to both married and unmarried coworkers.

Disclaimer: This information is for general educational purposes only and may not apply to all situations — everyone is unique after all. For help with an individual situation, please contact us —the first call is free, and we may just be able to put your mind at rest!

Look out for these four signs your husband is cheating with someone at work:

#1 A Crazy Workload

One of the “problems” all cheats face is finding the time for their adulterous ways. As a result, it’s likely that when he’s up to no good, his workload increases substantially and often without warning. Longer work hours, more frequent business trips and after-work socialising that you’re never invited to are the things to look for.

#2 Work vs Relationship Value

Work-Life balance is different for each and every one of us. Some people work just enough to get by and cover their bills, while others strive to progress their careers. No matter where your husband is on this scale, there has to be a value put on the time you spend together as a married couple. If you find that your relationship is being left behind as a dim and distant second place then there is every reason to believe something is wrong. It’s certainly worth investigation.

#3 No Talk About “That” Coworker

Everyone in every relationship talks about what they’ve been up to for the day. It’s the human way of “catching up” the people you care about. A way to strengthen the relationship bond. The typical partner response that shows interest, is to ask about work and how things are going.

But a cheating husband will try and stop any conversation that might lead to him having to talk about the person he’s cheating with. The result is a shut down of the conversation, usually by changing the subject.

#4 No Work “Small Talk”

Following on from #3 above, he may stop talking about work altogether. If he previously shared his day with you, but now any talk about work is off-limits, then you have every right to be suspicious.


“Is my husband cheating with someone at work?” is one of the most common questions we get asked for a cheating spouse investigation. As well as the above four signs he might be cheating at work, take a look at these seven dead giveaway signs of a cheating husband.

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Until next week,