When it comes to spotting the signs your girlfriend is thinking of cheating, there are always signals alerting of the trouble times ahead. Women usually give off huge clues like giant neon billboards.
Unfortunately, many men are oblivious to the warnings and are genuinely surprised when they found out their girlfriend is hooking up with someone else.
Steve here and welcome to this week’s private eye post, where we’ll cover the things you need to watch for, so you don’t get caught out. And, more importantly, have the chance to repair your relationship before she cheats on you.
Disclaimer: This information is for general educational purposes only and may not apply to all situations — everyone is unique after all. For help with an individual situation, please contact us —the first call is free, and we may just be able to put your mind at rest!
#1 Name Drops
First things first. You’re going to have listen to her more closely than usual.
Obviously, it’s perfectly normal for everyone to talk about their daily experiences. What they’ve been up to and the people they’ve interacted with. The latest gossip. And so on.
But if they start talking about a particular person more often than usual then it’s something to pay attention to.
Let’s imagine you say “I’ve heard the latest George Clooney movie is fantastic, we should go and see it” and she responds, “I was saying the same thing to Adam earlier today.”
Now, there’s a reason she mentioned Adam. Perhaps she really was talking with him about the movie.
But if you later mention something different in conversation, and she brings up Adam’s name again in an unrelated way, there’s cause for concern.
The higher the frequency of name dropping, the more she’s thinking about him.
#2 New Friends You Don’t Know
If you’ve been with your girlfriend for a while then it’s highly likely you know all of each other’s friends.
When the relationship is no longer new it’s going to be a rare occurrence that you’ll be introduced to someone new. Sure it may happen from time to time. Someone from your partner’s past will make an appearance. That’s all good, no great shakes.
But if she met someone new, and has since met them more than once, but never mentioned them before to you, then it’s a huge warning sign.
#3 Girls’ Night Out
I’m not saying that your girlfriend can’t enjoy a girls’ night out. Of course, she can.
But if it’s happening often and your girl is out until the morning hours, you may need to examine the situation.
Most girls in a happy relationship don’t stay out all night. Usually, they really try to avoid these types of nights in the first place, because groups of girls rarely stay in a group for the whole night anyway.
#4 Brings Up Reasons To Fight
Something whiffs. No matter what you say or do, you seem to be arguing every hour of every day. About nothing really. At least, nothing that really matters.
Some people create the situations they want, so they can justify their later actions. They even do it subconsciously.
So, if she’s creating situations of emotional upset, you have to wonder if she’s doing it so she can find solace elsewhere sometime soon.
Girls give off plenty of signals that they’re not happy in a relationship, and there are those which signal an intent to cheat. Paying attention will help you spot these clues, so you have time to do something about it.
If you think she may already be cheating, take a look at these articles to see if she’s displaying any of these signs. If she is, you may want to get in touch with us for help.
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Until next week,