How To Tell If A Woman Has Multiple Partners

Hey there, Steve here and welcome to this week’s private eye post where we’ll be taking a look at how to tell if a woman has multiple partners.

One of our main services related to dating is to perform a background check on relatively new partners — usually prior to making some kind of potentially life-changing decisions. What every man wants to know is, “Is she who she says she is?”

The first thing we should ask is, “Is dating multiple guys cheating?

My answer has to be, “It depends.”

If you think about it, it’s actually quite normal. Let’s say a woman is newly single, and after some time starts dating again. She joins a couple of dating sites, meets some new guys and goes out on a few dates. All acceptable in most people’s minds.

However, the further your relationship progresses beyond the initial first few dates, the less acceptable it will feel for her to still be seeing other men.

Let’s take a look at how to tell if a woman has multiple partners…


Disclaimer: This information is for general educational purposes only and may not apply to all situations — everyone is unique after all. For help with an individual situation, please contact us —the first call is free, and we may just be able to put your mind at rest!


#1 Time Together

She’s great. You really like her and enjoy spending time with her. She’s attractive and you almost can’t believe she’s into you too. There’s just one small problem — you don’t get to see her as often as you would like to. Now, I’m not talking about the really early stages of dating, I mean once your relationship should have started to develop. If she still only has 1 night-a-week put aside for you then it’s highly likely she’s dating other men.


#2 Just The Two Of You

Most relationships follow the pattern. You go on a few dates and get to know each other. There’s an obvious attraction between the two of you. It’s exciting, fresh and fun as you explore deeper with each other. As your relationship lengthens, it’s only natural for you to introduce the other people in your lives to each other. Friends, family, colleagues and so on. Only this isn’t happening in your relationship around the time it would be normal for it to do so. In fact, when you think about it, it’s only ever the two of you.

The reason could be she’s dating multiple men, and she really doesn’t want to introduce them all to her friends and family, will she?


#3 Relationship Limbo

Most women who are looking to meet someone they may potentially want to marry someday will ask lots of questions. I’m not saying she’ll ask if you want to settle down and have kids on your first date, but in my experience, these types of questions often come out during the first few months of dating. And this makes sense doesn’t it — after all if she’s going to commit to a relationship, she’s entitled to know how you feel about some major life choices.

So, if you’ve been seeing her for more than 6 months, and these types of questions have never materialised, it’s a sign she’s not seeing you as a commitment. You’ll feel like you’re stuck in some kind of “relationship limbo.”



According to some of the main dating sites, women are far more likely to date multiple men when they first start dating again. So, it shouldn’t be a surprise that this is happening in the first place. Also, many women adopt a “don’t ask don’t tell” attitude to this, but if you do ask them, they will tell you the truth. If you spot these signs but haven’t asked then perhaps you should?

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Until next week,