Hey there, Steve here and welcome to this week’s private eye post where I’ll answer a question I get asked often — who would my wife be cheating with?
I think a couple of these “possible lovers” are going to surprise you. You wouldn’t think she had the audacity!
OK, let’s dive in and take a look at the “usual suspects”…
Disclaimer: This information is for general educational purposes only and may not apply to all situations — everyone is unique after all. For help with an individual situation, please contact us —the first call is free, and we may just be able to put your mind at rest!
It sounds crazy but this is one of the highest probabilities. We see heaps of cheating wife cases where the neighbour comes “for a visit” once hubby goes to work. When married people cheat, it’s often because the opportunity is there. Women usually begin affairs emotionally, so if there’s a neighbour you see often he’s the most likely culprit.
Interestingly, many men report to us they would not be suspicious of their neighbour.
Which is probably why wives do it!
#2 Gym Buddy
Although the gym (or working out) is often used as an excuse by a wife to make time for her lover, many women get hit on by hot looking guys at the gym too. Almost 75% of Ashley Madison women admitted to having a fling with someone at the gym.
It’s one of the easiest ways for a wife to go somewhere without her husband. Think about it — when was the last time you took up your wife’s offer of going to yoga class with her?
#3 Work Colleague
This one should come as no surprise…
Most people spend as much time with their work colleagues as they do with their spouse. The shared struggles of work can quickly develop into emotional bonds, and boundaries become blurred. Look for signs she’s “working more” and read this post, “Is my wife cheating with someone at work?”
#4 An Ex
Social media is a curse when it comes to extramarital affairs. Staying friends on Facebook makes it far easier to reach out to an ex when trouble is brewing in a marriage. “Let’s catch up for a drink, I need to speak with someone who understands me” could mean the rekindling of old feelings and desires.
Of course, apps like Tinder have made it far easier to cheat with a complete stranger. But these types of hook-ups are intentional right from the get-go.
However brief, they also involve a period of “getting to know each other.” The truth is wives who cheat are much more likely to do so after becoming emotionally invested with someone they know. So, you need to look much closer to home and see what could be hiding in plain sight.
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Until next week,