Steve here and welcome to this week’s private eye post where I’m going to cover some of the signs which mean your wife is likely to cheat on you again.
In my line of work, I regularly have to tell husbands that their wife is cheating on them. There’s an array of emotions associated with the news. From anger, the feeling of immense betrayal, and sometimes complete breakdowns.
Sometimes we get called in to investigate the same person for a second time. And when we’re speaking with the husband, I’ve noticed some consistencies in behaviour which indicate a strong likelihood of the wife cheating again.
Let’s take a look at what those behaviours are…
Disclaimer: This information is for general educational purposes only and may not apply to all situations — everyone is unique after all. For help with an individual situation, please contact us —the first call is free, and we may just be able to put your mind at rest!
#1 The First Time They Cheated
There’s no excuse but sometimes alcohol-fuelled environments can lead to a married woman getting caught up in the moment and doing something they later regret.
So, if your wife “slipped up” at the office Xmas party, but immediately came home and told you about it because she knew she made a mistake, that’s a lot different to her carrying on an affair with someone for the last six months.
And even if she has had an extended period of infidelity, but came clean of her own accord compared with you using a private investigator, there’s a difference.
So, as painful as it might be, think about how you found out about the first time they cheated.
#2 Lies And Secrets
Lying, and keeping secrets from your spouse are common behaviours associated with cheating.
Now, you may think this means lies and secrets surrounding cheating activities, but actually, I mean more in general.
Seemingly innocent lies are the ones to watch for.
Does she lie about small things? Does your wife keep secrets from you? Is she super-private with her digital activities?
If you find yourself continually catching her out about where she’s been, who she’s spending time with, what she’s been up to that day, then this means she has a natural tendency to betray your trust.
The truth doesn’t need to be “bad”. For example, she could have gone shopping when she said she was meeting a girlfriend for lunch, or vice versa.
It’s the fact she’s keeping things from you deliberately that’s important.
#3 Serial Cheating
Look, I’m not saying people don’t make terrible mistakes and genuinely regret their infidelity.
But if she’s cheated in past relationships, and she’s cheated on you previously too, then there’s no denying her behaviour pattern.
And if you suspect something is wrong, it’s much more likely she’s cheating again.
#4 The Type Of Cheating
There are an infinite number of unique situations which can lead to a wife going walkabout and cheating on her husband.
It might be she’s close to someone at work and in a drunken moment, it leads to something more. Or it could be she’s put up a profile on Tinder and met up with someone for sex. She could have even been cheating with her ex for years.
Clearly, there are some situations which in the cold light of day seem far worse than others.
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Until next week,