5 Signs Your Girlfriend Is Cheating On You

Hey there, Steve here and welcome to this week’s private eye post, where we’ll look at five signs your girlfriend is cheating on you.

The numbers are not in your favour. According to research, one in four people will either cheat on their partner or be cheated on. So, it’s unsurprising that our most accessed service is our cheating partner investigations.

Some red flags are obvious — it’s easy to know your girlfriend is cheating on you when you arrive home early from work one day and catch her with some guy in your bed.

But other signs aren’t so obvious, and can simply feel like things aren’t ‘great’ with your relationship. When boyfriends tell us these not-so-obvious signs are taking place in their relationship, it’s almost 90% certain that their girlfriend is cheating on them.


Disclaimer: This information is for general educational purposes only and may not apply to all situations — everyone is unique after all. For help with an individual situation, please contact us —the first call is free, and we may just be able to put your mind at rest!


#1 Second-Time Stories

In any healthy relationship, boyfriends and girlfriends will share the stories of their day. The things happening in their lives.

Typically, the ladies will share more than the men.

But when she’s juggling more than one guy, it’s highly likely she’ll get her stories mixed up at some point.

So, if she says things like “I’m not sure if I told you this already…” it’s likely she’s having trouble keeping up with exactly what she’s said and to who.


#2 The Defender Bender

It’s just a normal conversation, and you ask her where she is, or what she’s up to and she immediately snaps at you.

Woah! Where did that come from?

If she’s easily whipped up into a defensive tone, then there’s a reason for that. And you’re not going to like it.


#3 The Secret Smile

It used to be that you shared secret smiles.

Nowadays, your girlfriend smiles when she looks at her phone but doesn’t share what she’s smiling about with you.

If you ask her what’s funny, the reply is “nothing.”

And that’s because the other guy is texting her and she’s not going to show you that now, is she?


#4 Not Tonight Babe

Sure, the passion dies down from time to time in any relationship.

But if she’s throwing out “not tonight” excuses left, right and centre, then when is the night?

The answer is probably “very soon” — but unfortunately not with you.


#5 Silence Isn’t Golden

This one is harder to spot but once you’re aware of it, it’s glaringly obvious.

Most people don’t put their phone on silent when they’re home. But if your girlfriend seems to constantly operate in silent mode, one reason can be that she’s screening calls.

That’s so she can call her bit on the side when it’s more private, and you haven’t been alerted by constant unexplained ringing.



The best way to spot these signs is to establish a baseline. Once you pay attention to her normal behaviour, then it’s far easier to know when things aren’t right.

If you suspect something is going on, please call and use our private investigator services to find out for sure.


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Until next week,