What’s Up Buttercup? 4 Signs Of A Straying Wife

Hey there, Steve here and welcome to this week’s private eye post where I talk about those signs which not only show there’s something wrong with your relationship but also that your wife is likely to be straying elsewhere.

Disclaimer: As always, please take this as general advice only. It’s impossible for me to cover every situation in a short post like this. Therefore, if you suspect your wife of cheating, please get help from us via the contact us form, or use the live chat feature on this page; it’s crucial that you get professional help if you have children.

#1 Bored, Bored, Bored

When you’re in a situation, and you’d prefer to be somewhere else, it’s likely that you have no interest in what’s going on. So, if your wife seems bored all the time — bored at home, bored with work, bored with the kids, bored with life — it’s likely that she’d prefer to be somewhere else, doing something else.

And should she prove to be faithful, but still bored, then there are things you will need to talk about for the health of your relationship.

#2 Couldn’t Give Two Hoots

If your wife couldn’t care less if you stay out late, spend little time with her, and isn’t jealous no matter what you say or do, then it’s trouble time. Not giving a hoot about you means she no longer cares. And no caring means no love. It’s serious and you need to do something about it.

#3 Action Jackson

Has your wife suddenly decided she’s an adrenaline junkie? Is she trying to get the thrills and spills of a teenager on Red Bull? If she is searching for the ‘ultimate ride’, she wants more excitement in her life. And do you know one way you can get excitement? That’s right, she might think about having an affair.

#4 Lies Elsewhere

Probably the most dangerous sign of all. If she lied to you about something, even a small thing, then it’s BIG problem time. Cheats have to tell a heap of lies to give them the time to do the dirty on you.

And when you catch her lying, stay calm, don’t react and see how many other lies she will tell you. Don’t confront her, call us and we’ll help you every step of the way.


Consequently, boredom, not caring about you, seeking thrills elsewhere and telling you lies, all add up to a cheating wife. In most cases anyway.

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Until next week,