Small Signs Of A Cheating Husband — And How To Tell A Cheater For Sure!

Hey there, Steve here and welcome to this week’s private eye post where we’ll take a look at the small signs of a cheating husband.

You are much more likely to see these small and subtle signs of cheating than any big warning sign. So, pay attention and let’s get going…


Disclaimer: This information is for general educational purposes only and may not apply to all situations — everyone is unique after all. For help with an individual situation, please contact us —the first call is free, and we may just be able to put your mind at rest!

#1 Intimacy Is “MIA”

Of course, there’s sex to consider but there are other types of intimacy in a marriage. Loving touches and shared conversations about hopes, dreams, and fears. These are all vital for long-term marriage health. So, if he has no interest in sex, or he’s never “close” with you, it might just mean he’s playing away.


#2 Just One-Word Communications

Communication breakdowns are all-too-common in marriages heading quickly for the “divorce exit.” Along with the lack of intimacy, if he’s started talking to you in just one-word answers it’s a double-edged sword — he may be about to cheat, or he may already be cheating.


#3 Unaccounted Spending

Guys are the ones who are likely to splash out on fancy dinners, choice alcohol and shower their fling with gifts. All this adds up — so if there’s some serious spending going on, and it’s not really accounted for, then you should investigate.


#4 Stop Being Nice

Cheating is without a doubt a guilty act. And sometimes your husband will try to get rid of the guilt they’re feeling by having you NOT do nice things for him. “Don’t make dinner”, “Don’t buy me gifts” and any phrase which tells you “Don’t put me first” are the ones to watch for.



Cheating is extremely difficult to hide within marriage and there are countless small signs which add up to the big picture. We all have a tendency to “default to the truth” — in other words, we believe our partners even though something seems not quite right. It’s only when we have the benefit of hindsight these small things cause us to say things like, “I’m so stupid — the signs were there all along.”

So, if you think your husband is showing signs of cheating, why not call us in and find out for sure?


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Until next week,