Body Language Of A Cheating Woman — “See” What She’s Up To!

Hey there, Steve here and welcome to this week’s private eye post. This week’s focus is on the body language of a cheating woman.

Suspect your wife or girlfriend of cheating?

Pay close attention to her body language. When she tells you lies, look for inconsistencies between her body and what she says — the body language is much more likely to be the truth.

Women usually begin with an emotional affair — so this post applies to the typical marriage or medium to long term relationship.

(If you’re newly dating, she might have multiple guys on the go and not show any of these signs at all.)


Read more about emotional affairs at the link below.


Disclaimer: This information is for general educational purposes only and may not apply to all situations — everyone is unique after all. For help with an individual situation, please contact us —the first call is free, and we may just be able to put your mind at rest!


#1 Lack Of Touch

When a woman becomes emotionally invested in another man, it stands to reason that her husband/boyfriend is no longer the object of her desires.

As a result, the little touches of affection present in every relationship disappear. No touching, no cuddling, no holding hands in public.


#2 A Distance Feeling

Along a similar vein as the lack of touch, the feeling of distance in a relationship is what often triggers a gut instinct that something is wrong.

Does she prefer to be in another room to you. If you enter does she walk out and do something different? This sign, along with the lack of touch means something is off with your marriage or relationship. It might not mean cheating but it’s certainly worth investigating.


#3 Overdoing the Gestures

I’m not talking about her buying you a present when they feel guilty — although that’s certainly a sign of infidelity.

What I mean here is how she gesticulates — uses her hands, arms and facial expressions — when she talks.

If she appears natural then you might be worrying about nothing. But if her eyes are wide, or she seems to be exaggerating her movements compared to normal, she could be trying to deceive you with her body language.


#4 That Thing Between You

This is a great one to watch out for because women do this all the time whether they’re married or not. And they typically do it subconsciously, so I find this an accurate predictor of a woman’s mind.

If she is uncomfortable, she will place something to create a barrier between you.

The object can be a cup, cushion, handbag, purse or a set of keys. It doesn’t matter what it is, as long as it creates a separation between the two of you.



Remember, women usually cheat emotionally first, and so the body language of a cheating woman you’re most likely to observe will be based on feeling distant from her. Trust your instincts, and if you suspect she’s cheating please contact us to investigate for you.

It’s important you remain level-headed and finding out from us can mean you act appropriately in the best ways for financial and legal reasons. This is especially true if you have children.


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Until next week,