Hey there, Steve here and welcome to this week’s private eye post. Whenever we get called by a wife, and the concern is that her husband is cheating, naturally we ask a lot of questions. You’d expect us to do that, right?
The thing is that just because you think something is off; it doesn’t mean he’s already cheated. He could just be ready to go ahead and have an affair. It sucks — I know. I mean, who wants to be told their husband is considering doing the dirty on their marriage? (Hint: the answer is no-one.)
But sometimes that’s the truth us investigators have to speak. We have to be honest and we have to tell you the state of your relationship. (It sucks for us too!)
So, in today’s post, I thought I’d share with you the four dead-giveaway signs your husband is ready to cheat on you. That way, you can at least try to do something about it before it happens — if you want to, of course!
Disclaimer: This information is for general educational purposes only and may not apply to all situations — everyone is unique after all. For help with an individual situation, please contact us or use the live chat feature [when available] on this page—the first call is free, and we may just be able to put your mind at rest!
#1 Sex Drop-Off
Sex disappears. In lots of actual cheating cases this can be both ways — less or more sex. It’s likely for physical reasons, that when a husband cheats, there is a drop-off, but this isn’t always the case. But before he cheats, this is the time when there’s a definite drop-off. Look out for it.
This is not the same as Jungle Fever. If your guy is obsessed with adrenaline, he’s a passion junkie. He’s always starting a new hobby, a new vice, or there’s just always something new going on, he’s MUCH more likely to be considering an affair.
#3 Game Over
If he’s just lost his job, especially if he’s been stable for quite some time, he’s likely to think, “F**k it!.” And this applies to all of his life. After all, nothing lasts forever? He’s not feeling great, and he’s highly susceptible to the luring effects of the ever-pursuing co-worker.
It’s been shown in many studies but no woman will want to hear this: If he got married under pressure, wasn’t ready for commitment, and certainly not marriage, then it’s much more likely that he’ll be looking around. Yes, if he was (or more likely, “felt”) forced into marriage for some reason, he’s likely screwing around. Be honest here ladies. Is there any reason he may have felt like this?
Yeh it’s bad when someone is cheating. But do you know, it feels a heap worse when you know your husband is looking. See one of these signs, and you better take action. Do something about it before it happens.
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Until next week,