Hey there, Steve here and welcome to this week’s private eye post. Our most frequent service is our cheating spouse and partner investigations. When we first speak with our clients, we usually hear them say they have a gut feeling that something is going on.
And when we investigate, as well as catching cheats, we’re also able to advise if we’ve seen or heard any behaviour which signifies if someone is about to cheat.
According to one survey, twenty percent of women have thought about cheating in the last two months, and for men that number rises to almost ninety percent. These figures include those sudden and fleeting thoughts many of us sometimes experience.
But when someone is seriously thinking about cheating, and they’ve made a conscious mental note that they’re looking for the person to do the dirty with, there are typically warning signs of the impending infidelity.
Today we’ll take a look at four of those signs.
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#1 The “Roxette” Makeover
Remember Roxette’s song “He’s Got The Look”?
Well, if your partner has started to become obsessed with his muscle tone, and is now spending more time at the gym building his ‘definition’ then you should beware. Couple this with new clothes that hug his physique and loud alarm bells should be going off in your head. Finally, add in the fact that he’s showing less interest in your erotic charms despite him looking so good, and it’s almost a slam-dunk he’s about to cheat. That is if he isn’t already.
#2 My, What A Butterfly!
Has your partner has become a social butterfly? If he’s spending his extra hours with fellow workers, or out with his friends, instead of enjoying quality time with you, then trust your intuitions.
#3 What’s Up Doc?
Are your marital conversations filled with love, life and laughter? Or do you suddenly find yourself answering his groans of irritation for no apparent reason? If your partner seems easily irritated of late, then you should investigate why.
#4 Hic, Hic.
Anytime there’s a change in behaviour you should look and see if you can understand the reasoning behind it. Nobody typically does anything without reason. Every action we take means something. And if you spot that he’s drinking more than ever, it’s a statistically significant sign that he might be about to cheat.
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Until next week,