Hey there, Steve here and welcome to this week’s private eye post where I’ll be talking through the common signs of a cheating girlfriend.
I’m often surprised by the high percentage of women who go ahead and find another partner before finishing up their existing relationship. It almost seems like it’s the normal thing to do these days.
So, if things aren’t great in your relationship, keep an eye out for these signs…
Disclaimer: This information is for general educational purposes only and may not apply to all situations — everyone is unique after all. For help with an individual situation, please contact us —the first call is free, and we may just be able to put your mind at rest!
#1 No Time For You
If she’s started seeing her friends more often and she’s out every night “with the girls” then it’s a big sign that something is wrong with your relationship. Some of the most common signs of cheating involve changes in routines, and this is definitely one of them.
The two most common ways your girlfriend might also change up her routine to spend less time with you (and maybe more time with him) are to become more socially involved with work or to increase the time and frequency of her gym visits.
#2 Distancing Body Language
Body language deceit is extremely difficult and so if you know what you’re looking for, it can be easy to see when things aren’t quite right. Obviously you’re not going to become a trained professional overnight, so start by focusing on some basics—distancing behaviours.
Does your girlfriend turn away from you when you do something? Is she walking without holding your hand, when previously she would have? Are there less (or zero) public displays of affection? Does she put an object between the two of you (e.g. a handbag or cushion.)
Don’t overcomplicate what you’re looking for here. Just make a conscious effort to check for these types of distancing behaviours.
#3 – Changing Tastes
Whenever anyone meets someone new they usually try and establish some kind of rapport. Essentially, it’s a series of checks to see if you are going to like each other and it’s worth making a friend.
The same thing happens when a new relationship starts but in a much stronger way.
Is she suddenly into a new type of music? Has she decided she’s going to be eating vegetarian? What about her newfound passion for rock climbing?
Get the idea?
#4 – Bedroom Bravery or Bedroom Boredom
This is probably the easiest sign of cheating to spot. Changes in sexual behaviour. Typically, when a woman is having an affair, one of two things happen. Either sex stops or she suddenly wants to try new things in the bedroom.
If you see these signs happening in your relationship, it’s time to take action. Your options are to attempt a “relationship rescue”, move on, or do nothing and let things run their course. The choice is yours.
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Until next week,