The Writing Is On The Wall — 4 Surefire Signs Of A Cheating Wife

Hey there, Steve here and welcome to this week’s private eye post. Many guys often ask me what’s the number one sign of a cheating wife? The one thing that would leave no doubt that she’s cheating for sure.

Short of catching her in the act, there are many possible signs for any particular individual. I’ve written many times about how all cheats must come up with alternative stories to account for the time they’ve really been spending with their fling.

In today’s hi-tech age, most cheats become secretive about their use of mobile devices. Plus, there are lots of behavioural changes that occur. Getting defensive, causing arguments, acquiring new hobbies are typical.

But when these signs are accompanied by the 4 signs below, it’s almost a guarantee that your wife has found a new partner.


Disclaimer: This information is for general educational purposes only and may not apply to all situations — everyone is unique after all. For help with an individual situation, please contact us or use the live chat feature [when available] on this page—the first call is free, and we may just be able to put your mind at rest!


#1 Experimental Bedtime Behaviour

A change in sexual behaviour is the norm for a cheating wife. In fact, this is one of the best indicators of all. Some wives avoid having sex with their husbands, while others become almost sex-crazed.


#2 Zero Jealousy

A wife who is cheating is far less likely to care if their husband talks about another woman. This lack of her insecurity means she doesn’t care much what’s happening with you. And the reason she doesn’t feel jealous, nor get angry, is because in her mind she’s already caring about what someone else thinks. The other guy!


#3 Weird Relationship Questions

If she starts asking weird relationship questions such as, “Do you think it’s possible to love more than one person?” or “Do you think most couples stay together forever?” then something is definitely awry. No-one who feels like they’re in a secure relationship asks questions like this. And cheaters often dance around their guilt by asking their partners cryptic questions like this.


#4 Zero Nagging

Part and parcel of every marriage is the share of the domestic burden. And let’s face it guys, women are usually much better at keeping things ship-shape around the home. And they get fed up doing it all, so nag when you watch the footie when you don’t tidy up after yourself, or go out for a few drinks with your mates. If she stops nagging you, and especially if she’s being super nice while you’re still doing these things, it’s because she doesn’t want to arouse suspicion about her own behaviour.



Along with these signs will be a myriad of behaviour changes, body language and verbal tells. They’re likely to make your gut instinct kick in and tell you something is wrong. Listen to that gut instinct. And don’t hesitate to call us if you need to—especially if you have kids. It’s far better to find out in an emotionally stable way that she’s cheating, so you can secure financial and legal advice to protect yourself.


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Until next week,