Hey there, Steve here and welcome to this week’s private eye post where we’ll take a look at some of the more common things we hear from the lips of a cheating wife.
It’s a strange fact, but in almost every cheating wife investigation we conduct here at Elite Investigations, we typically hear one or more of the four things below or have the husband report that his wife has said them.
Disclaimer: This information is for general educational purposes only and may not apply to all situations — everyone is unique after all. For help with an individual situation, please contact us —the first call is free, and we may just be able to put your mind at rest!
#1 “That’s Great Honey”
Ever felt like you’re talking to a brick wall? If she says something like, “That’s great honey”, but there’s no excitement in her voice, it means she has zero interest in what you’re saying. Now, if you’re talking about the footy this could be perfectly understandable. But if you notice this type of behaviour in her a lot more than usual, when talking about lots of things that she used to be interested in, you should beware!
Often this means she’s getting her emotional needs fulfilled elsewhere. In other words, she’s likely to be having at least an emotional affair with someone else. Of course, it may have already progressed into a full-blown fling.
#2 “X Did This X Did That”
Is your wife talking about some other guy and you’ve heard his name what seems like a gazillion times? What people talk about is what’s on their mind. So, if your wife is constantly speaking about this new guy at work in a positive light, then at a minimum there’s trouble brewing. Because that’s what’s on her mind.
#3 “Can We Skip Date Night This Week?”
The whole point of date night is that it’s your time together. It should be carved into your calendars like one of the ten commandments. Date night is the time you make sure you keep your intimacy with each other. When she asks to skip date night there should be a bloody good reason. Something is taking a higher priority over your relationship. Of course, things come up from time-to-time but this should be a rare exception and not a normal occurrence. If it’s starting to happen with some frequency, things have definitely gotten off track.
When a wife cheats, she more often than not cheats emotionally first. What you’ll notice, if you pay attention, is that your intimate chat disappears. There should be a kind of “secret language” between you both. Sayings that outsiders wouldn’t understand. If she’s not playing her part, it may mean your part is over. In this case, it’s not what she says, but instead what she doesn’t say.
At the best of times, us guys aren’t particularly observant. Especially when it comes to reading between the lines of what women say to us. So, if you suspect something is wrong, take time to mentally take stock of what she’s really saying (or not saying) and what that might mean.
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Until next week,