Hey there, Steve here and welcome to this week’s private eye post where we’re going to take a a look at three weird ways women act when cheating.
People’s behaviour around cheating varies dramatically depending on the length and commitment status of a relationship. When a relationship is established, there are often some highly strange ways this can manifest itself. But once you understand the motivations behind a woman’s actions, things become much clearer.
Let’s take a look…
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#1 Why So Nice?
Women cheat for lots of potential reasons. Feeling unloved. Feeling lonely. Feeling overwhelmed by having to be all things to all people. And of course, to get more satisfying sex.
Before she cheats, all of these “reasons” will mean the relationship is not operating anywhere close to 100%.
When she becomes physically intimate with another person she crosses a line. Afterwards, she’s going to feel tremendously guilty the first few times she does this.
It’s not unusual for her to want to assuage her guilty feelings. Like men “out of nowhere” buying flowers or chocolates.
She might cook your favourite meal. She might buy you a bottle of your favourite tipple. Or she might even be particularly attentive to your every need.
Why is she being so nice to you, when the last few months she’s been nagging you to death?
#2 She’s The Best
This one is going to sting a little because it will feel like your relationship is rock solid. Secure enough that she’s encouraging you to go out with your friends. Essentially, do things without her that she knows you enjoy but that you would never expect her to do with you.
There are two possible reasons behind her understanding behaviour.
First, she wants to spend less time with you. This means less chances of you both speaking. No need to have intimate conversations. Ultimately, a kind of “distance measure.”
Secondly, she wants you out of the way so can get up to no good. Whether that’s a meet up for some physical activity or the chance to chat with her lover.
#3 From 0-100
When people are unhappy in a relationship, their sex life often goes to pot. It’s another kind of distance measure from each other.
But having sex with someone else can emotionally charge her. Make her feel good about herself again.
And once she settles into the routine of her affair, it may trigger a spurt of sex with you. Almost like she can’t get enough. In other words, your sex life goes from 0 – 100 almost overnight.
If she’s become more adventurous in bed, or tries something new with you, it’s almost certain there’s an underlying reason for the change.
Things people do and say always have a reason and motive behind them. No-one ever does much without a reason.
Even the strangest behaviour has meaning behind it. Don’t just let things go idly by without thinking what they could mean.
By asking yourself what the possible reasons could be, you may be able to spot when things are going wrong and actually do something about it.
Before it’s too late.
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Until next week,