Things Cheating Women Say To Their Partner

Hey there, Steve here and welcome to this week’s private eye post where we’re going to take a look at the sorts of things cheating women say to their partner.

Now, if you’re reading this, you probably already suspect something isn’t right in your relationship? So, listen to what she says carefully. It might sound crazy, but cheaters often give themselves away without knowing that they’re doing so.


Disclaimer: This information is for general educational purposes only and may not apply to all situations — everyone is unique after all. For help with an individual situation, please contact us —the first call is free, and we may just be able to put your mind at rest!


#1 – She’s Attentive To Your Routine

Of course, in any relationship, it’s normal for your partner to pay attention to the things which are going on in your life. What you’ve been up to. How things are going at work. The things which are on your mind.

But if she’s at the point where she’s cheating — or about to cheat — then it’s likely your relationship hasn’t been great recently.

So, if she suddenly starts taking much more interest in your daily life, you might be wondering why that is?

Well, if the interest is in your routine and your plans for the immediate future, it could be so she is able to make plans in your absence…

Like meeting up with the guy she’s cheating with!


#2 – Criticism From Every Angle

Every couple has their own normal level of arguments. Some couples hardly ever argue at all, even when they disagree with each other. Some have daily disagreements.

But for most relationships, words of anger, criticism, or even outright cruelty are not typical.

Has she suddenly started dealing out verbal and emotional abuse on a much more regular basis?

I’ve found this to be true in about three-quarters of cases where the woman is cheating on her husband or partner.


#3 – Giving You Space

Women usually begin to cheat by having an emotional affair. What this boils down to is becoming more emotionally involved with another person, while becoming emotionally distant from you.

Instead of making out that something is wrong with her, it’s likely she’ll reverse the situation and make out she’s being nice to you.

So, she’ll look for opportunities to encourage you to spend more time with your friends, go to your poker night, or enjoy the day fishing.

Of course, sometimes women are just being nice. So, like any clue to deceit or infidelity, you must look for changes to her normal behaviour.

If she’s always been like this, then there’s probably nothing to be concerned about. But if it’s a new thing, it should arouse your suspicions.


#4 – Rehearsed Words

Cheating and lying always go hand-in-hand. (She has to lie about what she’s been doing, right?)

What a lot of cheating women do is create their lie beforehand. So, when she’s telling you what she’s been up to, listen for signs of a rehearsed story.

This will usually manifest as too much information in one go. Like she’s trying to get the whole story out before she forgets what she’s going to say.

If you hear this, pretend you didn’t quite hear what she said. When she repeats the story, does she say exactly the same words? If she does, it’s often one of the signs of lying.



So there you have my top four things cheating women say to their partner. Remember, if you do suspect your wife/girlfriend of cheating the last thing you should do is confront her, or try to investigate yourself (especially if you have children!)

Use our cheating spouse service and this accomplishes 2 things.

Firstly, if she’s not cheating there’s no harm done to your relationship. Secondly, if she is cheating, instead of it being an emotionally charged situation, you will have time to collect your thoughts, speak with a lawyer if appropriate, and determine the best steps forward.


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Until next week,