Men are so predictable that it’s highly likely you’ll be able to easily spot one of these 7 dead-giveaway signs of a cheating husband without too much trouble.
If you still need some help this post will help you answer the most commonly asked question, “Is he cheating or am I paranoid.”
Guys usually have affairs in the workplace. So, it’s also worth checking out this post on Signs Your Husband Is Cheating With A Coworker
Hey there, Steve here and welcome to this week’s private eye post, where I’ll talk through the signs hubby is cheating that are pretty much 100% accurate.
Now, as an investigator, I‘ve seen and heard a lot of crazy things. Men who go to extreme lengths to make a chunk of time for their affairs.
We’re talking faking accidents, pretending to have work commitments overseas, and even one case of someone trying to their own death for a period of time.
But most affairs aren’t part and parcel of some weird and wonderful story. They’re much more routine.
Disclaimer: This information is for general educational purposes only and may not apply to all situations — everyone is unique after all. For help with an individual situation, please contact us —the first call is free, and we may just be able to put your mind at rest!
#1 A Friend Tells You
Have you ever noticed you can see what’s right and wrong about other people’s relationships much more easily than you can your own?
You probably wondered why you find it so much easier and the answer is simple: You’re not emotionally invested in the relationship.
Now think about what it would take for you to tell your best friend that you think her husband is cheating on her. It’s certainly not an action you’d take lightly, is it?
So, if a friend does pluck up the courage to talk, you should sit up and take notice.
#2 Immediate Showers
Has he suddenly started taking a shower as soon as he gets home? It’s a dead giveaway.
Most guys who cheat and need to take a shower at home won’t even get close to their wife before doing so. They’re afraid they smell of sex.
It might not be a daily occurrence, so check and see if it’s happening on the same day each week.
Of course, if he works in an industry where he gets dirty you have to be sensible about this. But even then, most men will happily kiss their wife when they get home. It’s when he’s totally avoiding contact with you that you should be suspicious.
#3 Device Mania
Has he suddenly become fanatical about his phone, computer or tablet? Won’t let you near it.
Or, perhaps, there are no browsing history or text messages left?
In our increasingly technical world, it’s nearly impossible to hide all digital footprints, but if your man is making the efforts to do so, it’s obvious you have to ask why.
And the answer is almost always because he’s hiding something from you.
What does he need to hide?
That’s right, his affair.
#4 No Reason Accusations
This one is so common is a predictable indicator of a cheat. They accuse you of cheating for no apparent reason.
Somehow, guys think this helps to distance you from them when they’re the ones cheating.
#5 Time Warps
If your husband has suddenly become Doctor Who and travels into “Time Warps”, you have every right to be suspicious.
What are Time Warps?
They’re the unexplained periods of time every cheat needs to carry on with an affair.
For example, he makes an excuse like he needs to go to the shop to buy something, but it takes 45 minutes when it should take 10.
Look for them.
You’ll find Time Warps within every cheat’s repertoire.
#6 Sex Change
No, I don’t mean your husband has undergone surgery. I mean his sexual appetite has changed.
He will either be a wild bull or not want any intimacy at all.
It’s the change from what’s ordinary that’s important.
#7 Female On A Pedestal
‘Female on a pedestal’ is my term for the way a man will mention the person he’s having an affair with, in a platonic way. Yes, that’s right, he’ll talk about her to you.
When he does, he’ll put her on a pedestal – by which I mean he’ll speak good of her.
I know it sounds strange, but this happens in about 60% of cases.
So, there you have it. My seven dead-giveaway signs of a cheating husband.
Although it’s extremely likely a husband is having an affair if you see one of these signs, it isn’t true 100% of the time. Before you accuse him, hire one of our investigators to find out for sure.
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Until next week,