Hey there, Steve here and welcome to this week’s private eye post. One of the natural trends we’re experiencing at Elite Investigations, is the amount of technology involved in cheating.
In today’s post I’m going to cover 4 “tech involvement” signs you should look for, if you suspect your man of cheating. These are in addition to him being overly possessive about his phone, or even having a second phone. The cheating can be emotional as well as physical.
Disclaimer: This information is for general educational purposes. For help with an individual situation, please contact us or use the live chat feature on this page.
#1 Inside Joke Comments
Imagine you’re at a dinner party. A woman is talking to your husband, and it seems like they’re sharing inside jokes. They’ve obviously spoken before. There’s a level of intimacy that’s implied by their chitter chatter. Only you’ve never heard of her. And he’s never mentioned her, even in passing. Although we all have hundreds of “friends” on Facebook, some we probably can’t remember too well, if this is happening on his Facebook wall, you should investigate further.
#2 The Snap Off
Whenever you come across your fella on his phone, he instantly switches off from his device and puts it away. It might be when you wake up, or when you enter a room he’s in. Whatever. He has a reason for his action, and it’s because he doesn’t want you to see what he’s up to. Looks guilty as hell.
#3 Off Peak Dings
It’s strange how digital life has impacted the world. Just a couple of decades ago, if someone called you late at night, it would have felt weird. Nowadays, many people take their phones to bed. And it’s not just calls, it’s Facebook alerts, texts and a thousand other notifications. If it happens occasionally, all good. But if it’s regularly interrupting your nighttime routines, you may want to look into the reasons for the unwanted interruptions.
If your relationship has lost the fluidity of communication because he always seems to have his head buried in his smartphone, you’re not alone. It’s a source of constant friction in many relationships. But if he never shares what he’s been texting back and forth for the last few hours, then you have every right to be concerned.
Whether he’s actually physically involved with someone, or if he’s just digitally flirting, the signs aren’t good for your relationship. You could try suggesting that you both use your phones less, in some sort of “keeping smartphone addiction under control” remedy to an article you’ve seen. Try this one: https://www.gadgetsnow.com/slideshows/7-ways-to-get-rid-of-smartphone-addiction/photolist/53604482.cms
If you think it’s gone too far, and he may already be cheating, please don’t hesitate to get in touch. Your first call is free and handled in the strictest confidence.
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Until next week,